Cage's post does not invalidate your feelings, or what you are going through.
I'm not going through fading. I'm OUT OUT OUT. But when I see those same shunning attitudes pop up here, it really gets under my skin. Not because they are having those feelings themselves. But because they are making other people feel like crap while they are going through their own personal hell. I could not care less that Cage (who I've also liked on this site), does not want to be around anyone that is fading. But the effect it has on others that are fading and having a tough time with it, that's when I get upset. I've seen similar statements made against New Chapter, Cedars, Elder Elite, Yknot, and others that did not leave the organization on the timetable that others thought that they should.